Since that posting, I have been reminded of a few more important skills that a Leader should have in his tool-kit. The first is being able to build rapport through communication. Research has shown when communicating with others only 7% of our message is actually portrayed by the words that we use......of the rest, 13% is in the way that we say things and the remainder, a massive 80%, by our body language. Effective leaders are able to read and use this language....either consciously or subconsciously ! NLP offers us some really good insights into the communication preferences that people have and opens up new avenues for better communication.
Along a similar line, This week's Booz & Co Strategy and Business E-Zine carries an interview with Peter Guber, the Hollywood Film Producer, Author and Entrepreneur which discusses the merits of being able to bring "narrative communication" into business management. In terms of engaging with people, communicating facts and figures is not the be-all and end-all of selling an idea or gaining commitment. In addition to delivering a "rational argument", the most effective leaders are also able to sell their ideas through delivery of an "emotional argument" too. The interview makes for an interesting read !
Steve
ReplyDeleteYou make some good points about the value of non-verbal elements in communcation and the article you cite is very powerful in reinforcing the importance of using rich stories. This is particularly valid as we increasingly use emails, texts and tweets which make it difficult to convey tone, texture and feelings :-)
It is unfortunate that you have repeated the frequently quoted misinterpretion of Albert Mehrabian's original research - see for example:
http://speakingaboutpresenting.com/presentation-myths/mehrabian-nonverbal-communication-research/
Whilst few would doubt the importance of tone, expression and body language in enriching face to face communication, the research doesn't support the quoted statistics!
Jim - Thanks for the link to Albert Mehrabian's research. I'll check it out.
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